It is the willingness to pass up immediate pleasure in favor of the long-term gain.Maturity is perseverance, the ability to sweat out a project or a situation in spite of heavy opposition and discouraging set-backs. Maturity is the capacity to face unpleasantness and frustration, discomfort and defeat, without complaint or collapse. Maturity is humility. It is being big enough to say, "I was wrong." And, when right, the mature person need not experience the satisfaction of saying, "I told you so."
I want you to take not of this: "It is the willingness to pass up immediate pleasure in favor of the long-term gain". This is very key. Indiscriminate sex and the brag about the number of ladies you have slept with or the numbers of men a lady has slept with would have been so nice and a fun to many, but the realization of the negative or the after effect of the enjoyment has kept many a way from doing that. You see, like other vices that requires self discipline or maturity as the case may be, we do know that some things are good for us, but at the same time those things are not expedient. Like the case of indiscriminate sex.What do we do, we exercise our will power to "... willingness to pass up immediate pleasure in favor of the long-term gain".
So, while you join or sign up to have fun and socialize amongst local and international group listed below, take advantage of wisdom made available to you, use only the good aspect that you have ability to control.
In a nut shell play ALL LOVE with maturity while you still enjoy yourself to the fullest. Here is how to do that:
